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Primary-source quotations organized by theme. Click a passage for its full context, citation, and related techniques.
Control & The Dichotomy
What is up to us, and what is not. The foundational Stoic move.
As if thou wert dying right now
Marcus Aurelius · 2.11Memento mori at its most direct — Marcus's reminder that you might leave life this moment.
Begin the morning by saying to thyself
Marcus Aurelius · 2.1Marcus's morning preparation — naming in advance the kinds of people you will encounter, so their conduct loses the power to surprise.
Everything harmonises with me
Marcus Aurelius · 4.23Marcus's clearest statement of amor fati — willing what the universe brings, not merely tolerating it.
Four moves on anger (selected from Marcus's ten)
Marcus Aurelius · 11.18 (First, Fourth, Fifth, Eighth)The longest meditation on anger in the book — Marcus's nine numbered moves plus a tenth from Apollo. Four are excerpted here.
It is not he who reviles you who insults you
Epictetus · 20The most surgical Stoic dismantling of the offended response.
Men are disturbed not by things
Epictetus · 5The passage that gave Albert Ellis the seed of cognitive behavioural therapy.
Men seek retreats for themselves
Marcus Aurelius · 4.3The retreat is not in the country house. It is in the mind, available always.
Never say of anything, I have lost it
Epictetus · 11Epictetus on grief — the most exacting Stoic move on what we call ours.
Of things which are in our power and not in our power
Epictetus · 1.1The opening Discourse — Epictetus's longer working-out of the dichotomy that the Enchiridion later compresses.
Our friend Liberalis is now downcast
Seneca · Letter 91 (sections 1, 4, 8)Seneca's letter after the fire of Lugdunum — one of the most explicit Stoic statements of praemeditatio malorum, written when the worst has actually happened.
Some things are up to us
Epictetus · 1The first lines of the Enchiridion — the foundational dichotomy on which the rest of the philosophy rests.
The duties are measured by the relations they bear
Epictetus · 30Epictetus on the duties of family — the structural Stoic position that a relation is not made or unmade by the conduct of the other party.
The impediment to action advances action
Marcus Aurelius · 5.20Marcus's one-line statement of what Ryan Holiday would later make a book title.
The wise man does nothing against his will
Seneca · 4.34Seneca's articulation of the reserve clause — the formula that absorbs disappointment in advance.
Mortality
The limit that gives the time its weight.
As if thou wert dying right now
Marcus Aurelius · 2.11Memento mori at its most direct — Marcus's reminder that you might leave life this moment.
Do not act as if thou wert going to live ten thousand years
Marcus Aurelius · 4.17Memento mori in two sentences. The window is open; close one thing today.
How tiny a fragment of boundless time
Marcus Aurelius · 12.32The cosmic scale, now turned on you. The fragment is yours; the boundless is not.
I am grieved to hear that your friend Flaccus is dead
Seneca · Letter 63 (sections 1, 7, 11, 12)Seneca's letter to Lucilius on the death of a friend — grief acknowledged, then carefully shaped.
On saving time
Seneca · Letter 1The opening letter of the Epistulae. The only resource that is yours; the only one you are casually robbed of.
Anger & Provocation
The passion the Stoics treat as the most dangerous and the most curable.
Begin the morning by saying to thyself
Marcus Aurelius · 2.1Marcus's morning preparation — naming in advance the kinds of people you will encounter, so their conduct loses the power to surprise.
Four moves on anger (selected from Marcus's ten)
Marcus Aurelius · 11.18 (First, Fourth, Fifth, Eighth)The longest meditation on anger in the book — Marcus's nine numbered moves plus a tenth from Apollo. Four are excerpted here.
It is not he who reviles you who insults you
Epictetus · 20The most surgical Stoic dismantling of the offended response.
Men are disturbed not by things
Epictetus · 5The passage that gave Albert Ellis the seed of cognitive behavioural therapy.
The evening review (after Sextius)
Seneca · 3.36Seneca describes his nightly self-interrogation — and credits it to the Pythagorean Sextius.
Fate & *Amor Fati*
Willing what happens, not merely tolerating it.
Everything harmonises with me
Marcus Aurelius · 4.23Marcus's clearest statement of amor fati — willing what the universe brings, not merely tolerating it.
The wise man does nothing against his will
Seneca · 4.34Seneca's articulation of the reserve clause — the formula that absorbs disappointment in advance.
Reputation & Approval
The hunger for the crowd's opinion, and the cure for it.
A view from above
Marcus Aurelius · 9.30The technique Hadot considered the most essential of the Stoic spiritual exercises — and one Marcus practiced daily.
How tiny a fragment of boundless time
Marcus Aurelius · 12.32The cosmic scale, now turned on you. The fragment is yours; the boundless is not.
Lay down a character and pattern for yourself
Epictetus · 33Epictetus's closing prescription — choose your own standard and apply it without consulting the crowd.
Men seek retreats for themselves
Marcus Aurelius · 4.3The retreat is not in the country house. It is in the mind, available always.
Recede in te ipse quantum potes
Seneca · Letter 7Withdraw into yourself as much as you can — Seneca on the crowd.
Grief & Loss
What was given was always borrowed.
I am grieved to hear that your friend Flaccus is dead
Seneca · Letter 63 (sections 1, 7, 11, 12)Seneca's letter to Lucilius on the death of a friend — grief acknowledged, then carefully shaped.
Never say of anything, I have lost it
Epictetus · 11Epictetus on grief — the most exacting Stoic move on what we call ours.
Desire & Aversion
The two impulses Epictetus treats as the entire workshop of ethics.
At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed
Marcus Aurelius · 5.1Marcus on the morning, the blankets, and the work — the most physically grounded passage in the Meditations.
Of things which are in our power and not in our power
Epictetus · 1.1The opening Discourse — Epictetus's longer working-out of the dichotomy that the Enchiridion later compresses.
Our friend Liberalis is now downcast
Seneca · Letter 91 (sections 1, 4, 8)Seneca's letter after the fire of Lugdunum — one of the most explicit Stoic statements of praemeditatio malorum, written when the worst has actually happened.
This roast meat is the dead body of a fish
Marcus Aurelius · 6.13The objective representation technique, demonstrated. Strip the impression of its flattering paint.
Adversity & Resilience
The training ground. What you call obstacle, the Stoic calls equipment.
Our friend Liberalis is now downcast
Seneca · Letter 91 (sections 1, 4, 8)Seneca's letter after the fire of Lugdunum — one of the most explicit Stoic statements of praemeditatio malorum, written when the worst has actually happened.
Set aside a certain number of days
Seneca · Letter 18Seneca's prescription for voluntary discomfort — practice poverty in advance.
The impediment to action advances action
Marcus Aurelius · 5.20Marcus's one-line statement of what Ryan Holiday would later make a book title.
Friendship & Community
The Stoic, by nature social, owes the city more than the city owes him.
Wealth & Indifference
A preferred indifferent — pursue it, but never lean on it.
Public Opinion
The crowd is not your judge. The good man is your judge, and you are he.
Self-Examination
The hardest interlocutor is the one in your own mind.
A view from above
Marcus Aurelius · 9.30The technique Hadot considered the most essential of the Stoic spiritual exercises — and one Marcus practiced daily.
At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed
Marcus Aurelius · 5.1Marcus on the morning, the blankets, and the work — the most physically grounded passage in the Meditations.
Men seek retreats for themselves
Marcus Aurelius · 4.3The retreat is not in the country house. It is in the mind, available always.
Show me a Stoic
Epictetus · 2.19.24-28Epictetus's most exacting demand on his own students — and the passage that names the gap between knowing the philosophy and being changed by it.
The evening review (after Sextius)
Seneca · 3.36Seneca describes his nightly self-interrogation — and credits it to the Pythagorean Sextius.
This roast meat is the dead body of a fish
Marcus Aurelius · 6.13The objective representation technique, demonstrated. Strip the impression of its flattering paint.
Action & Duty
The Stoic acts — for the common welfare, with reserve, without dependence on the result.
At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed
Marcus Aurelius · 5.1Marcus on the morning, the blankets, and the work — the most physically grounded passage in the Meditations.
Lay down a character and pattern for yourself
Epictetus · 33Epictetus's closing prescription — choose your own standard and apply it without consulting the crowd.
Show me a Stoic
Epictetus · 2.19.24-28Epictetus's most exacting demand on his own students — and the passage that names the gap between knowing the philosophy and being changed by it.
The duties are measured by the relations they bear
Epictetus · 30Epictetus on the duties of family — the structural Stoic position that a relation is not made or unmade by the conduct of the other party.
The impediment to action advances action
Marcus Aurelius · 5.20Marcus's one-line statement of what Ryan Holiday would later make a book title.
The wise man does nothing against his will
Seneca · 4.34Seneca's articulation of the reserve clause — the formula that absorbs disappointment in advance.
Time
The only resource of which you cannot ask for an extension.
Do not act as if thou wert going to live ten thousand years
Marcus Aurelius · 4.17Memento mori in two sentences. The window is open; close one thing today.
How tiny a fragment of boundless time
Marcus Aurelius · 12.32The cosmic scale, now turned on you. The fragment is yours; the boundless is not.
On saving time
Seneca · Letter 1The opening letter of the Epistulae. The only resource that is yours; the only one you are casually robbed of.